Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

The 7 Links of Answering Oliver

There have been a few improvements around here that I'd like to let y'all know about!

  • You can now subscribe to Answering Oliver via RSS — just do the Subscribe thingy in the right sidebar (directly under my big head). I'm a few years behind, um, everyone else and just started using Google Reader to subscribe to RSS feeds and keep track of some of my favorite blogs. It's amazing!

  • You can also sign up to receive new posts right in your email inbox just do the Follow By Email thingy in the right sidebar (directly under Subscribe and my big head). Since I don't post on a regular basis (sorry — I really want to change that!), you'll be notified when I put up a new post. That means you don't have to hang out on my blog hitting "refresh" over and over in anticipation! OK, so no one does that. Regardless, feel free to sign up to receive my posts via email — I swear I won't send you anything else, and you can unsubscribe at any time. 

My 7 Links

Meg over at Mega Musings tagged me to participate in posting seven links that fall under interesting categories. Most of my favorite bloggers have done this already and I've loved going back and reading the posts they've chosen! It gives new readers a chance to dig into stuff that's now collecting dust in the archives.

Here we go!


MOST BEAUTIFUL POST: 


I wrote this post to celebrate how incredibly far my boyfriend had come in one year since he was hit by a car while riding his motorcycle. His extensive injuries, including a completely destroyed knee, sidelined him and demoralized him for months, and yet he came back with an intense desire to live life to its fullest and never let that accident impact his goals. I cried writing it. I cried reading it. I think his story, and his spirit, are beautiful.


MOST POPULAR POST:
An unhurried life


This post is the most popular by the number of comments and emails I received in response, and that meant so much to me. I think it was popular because Leo Babauta tweeted it to his 70,000-something Twitter followers, but I'd like to believe it was because it's awesome. : D

I wrote this about a life realization I had at the World Domination Summit in June, one that I happened to be able to share with Leo first. I have never, ever experienced anything like what happened to me on that walk through Portland; I suspect it's rare. I'm glad I have it down in words and photos.


MOST CONTROVERSIAL POST:
Fremont Solstice Parade 2011


OK, I don't really have any controversial posts! Nothing has sparked a vigorous debate in the comments or spurred an angry email in my direction (so far).

I chose my post about the semi-naked bike ride for this because you would not believe how many people visit my blog because they're searching for naked photos from the Fremont Solstice Parade. In fact, it's actually my most popular post by far in terms of traffic. You mean people... search the Internet... for naked pictures? Scandalous!

I imagine that once people see my pictures and realize Aaron and I weren't naked, they're pretty disappointed. Sorry, guys! That's as controversial as it gets.


MOST HELPFUL POST:










Last summer, after I became debt-free, I wrote this series of three posts full of tips to help people get started with paying off their debt. I outlined exactly how I got organized and created my first budget; how I badgered Citi into lowering the interest rate on my credit card from 19.99% to 9.99%; and how I successfully used cash to curb my spending and stick to my budget.

When I first started paying attention to my finances, I knew nothing! I think these posts are very helpful for anyone who's looking for their first steps.

(The more fun and interesting runner-up for Most Helpful Post is Hawaii video & what to do on Oahu.)


SURPRISINGLY SUCCESSFUL POST:
Halloween 2010: The lobster costume


I guess I shouldn't be surprised; this costume was awesome. I guess I'm more surprised by how many people share my desire to dress like a crustacean!

I was the talk of the Halloween party in this homemade costume — I was even able to play beer pong with my claws on! — and I'm still trying to figure out how I'm going to top it this year...


POST THAT DIDN'T GET THE ATTENTION IT DESERVED:
The Value of Financial Struggle





This was actually a guest post that I wrote for Pocket Changed that got one very nice comment, and I'm proud of what I wrote.

Patience, passion and a plan were the three keys that helped me pay off my debt, and I still rely on those elements to achieve every goal I set for myself. Financial struggle definitely sucks, but I learned some very important things from it, and I wouldn't go back and change my financial journey for the world.


POST THAT I'M MOST PROUD OF:
2010: The year in review

This was a tough post to write because I admitted several things that happened in 2010 that I was ashamed of. I'm proud that I was able to write this from a vastly different and better place, knowing that I was no longer that person who drank too much, didn't exercise at all and was deeply unhappy with her life.

I was finally able to say, "I am happy every day. I'm not necessarily happy all day, and sometimes not even most of the day, but I am happy. Every. Day."


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That was fun! I'm tagging these five bloggers to post their seven links as well:


- Jacob Sokol of Sensophy
- Jodi Ettenberg of Legal Nomads (EDIT: Jodi's wonderful links are already here)
- Steve Kamb of Nerd Fitness
- Jenny Blake of Life After College
- Joel Runyon of Blog of Impossible Things


Can't wait to read 'em, ladies and gentlemen!

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Thursday, June 16, 2011

My favorite posts

I've added a few new pages to the blog recently, in case you've missed 'em!

  • The Photography page explains how I started getting into photography and how I bought my camera, and it also features some of my favorite photos.


  • And finally, the Favorite posts page is one I've been meaning to add for quite some time. I always love perusing this type of page on other blogs, since it really helps me get to know the bloggers and more of their stories.

I've also put all the links to my favorite posts in this post as well, so you don't have to click all the way over to the new page if you don't want to. I don't always write really descriptive post titles, so you'll notice that I've added brief explanations to some of them so you'll know what they're about.

Enjoy!


Most popular posts

An unhurried life
WDS: People who've changed my life
Halloween 2010: The lobster costume — you wanna click this one, trust me
Hawaii video & what to do on Oahu
For Aaron — my boyfriend's motorcycle accident and recovery


Money posts

Money troubles, and why I love my mom — how I got started with paying off my debt
Back to the beginning — how I got into debt in the first place
For the win — finally paying off my credit card
Before and after — finally paying off my student loan and becoming 100% debt-free
Patience. Passion. A plan. — the three keys to my debt-paying success
The reasons — why personal finance is so important to me


G.O.O.D. (Getting Out of Debt) tips

Tip #1: Get organized — write everything down
Tip #2: Get angry — raise a little hell
Tip #3: Get thee to an ATM — start paying with cash


Adventures and vacations

Hurtling through the air toward certain death — my first skydive
Tequila shots that don't kill you will only make you stronger — my first 5K
"When a great adventure is offered, you don't refuse it" — free Caribbean cruise!
Notes from the Caribbean and beyond — cruise photos and my third 5K
1/1/11 in photos, plus 2011 goals — New Year's Day 5K and polar bear dive
Race day — my favorite parts of every race
The batting cage — trying not to die
A soul trip — off to Hawaii
Oahu in photos and Oahu through Aaron's lens
Do Life: Seattle and my DetermiNation


Wisdom and life-changing things (aka "Things I've learned from Chris Guillebeau")

Doing it all
On family
The next trapeze bar — meeting Jenny Blake on her book tour
Grabbing the bananas — meeting Chris Guillebeau on his Unconventional Book Tour
On perfectionism and failure
Talent, passion and love, love, love
Start taking your dreams very, very seriously
You don't have to live your life the way other people expect you to


Reflective posts

Will it be scary?
2010: The year in review
What a difference a year makes
A sense of possibilities — reflecting on my first year of real-world employment

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Monday, March 14, 2011

One-Year Blog Anniversary and GIVEAWAY!

Whoa — I've been blogging for a whole year! I didn't tell anyone about this blog for quite a while after I started writing it, so it seems like it's been a shorter amount of time.

I started one year ago by writing about my debt and the steps I was taking to get out of it, and I was pretty embarrassed about the situation I'd gotten myself into — nearly $9,000 in the hole between a credit card, a student loan and some money I owed my mom.

For a long time, I had trouble admitting all that to myself, let alone admitting it to my 600+ closest friends and the vast, anonymous Internet. I was ashamed that I couldn't manage my money and I didn't want my friends to know that I had been barely scraping by before I moved back into my mom's house after college.

But coming clean — to myself, to my family, to my friends (who couldn't have cared less, honestly) and to the Internet — was a vital part of the process for me. It kept me accountable to my goals, and reminded me that all the number-crunching and budget-scribbling was important and worth the effort.

became debt-free on July 16, 2010 — a mere six months after I made it my top priority. It could have easily taken forever — I could have been in debt for the rest of my life. I couldn't be happier that I've gotten my finances straight and am now able to be financially responsible while having some fun adventures, too.

This blog, and the support I've gotten from so many people through it, has been a huge part of that.

So in celebration of my one-year blog anniversary, I'm going to do a super nerdy giveaway: a hardcover copy of Dave Ramsey's The Total Money Makeover.


This is a simple, straightforward book that taught me all about basic personal finance, including how to create a budget, how to get out of debt, how to build a comfortable level of savings and how to plan for retirement (it's so important to start early!). I can safely say that I wouldn't be where I am financially today if I hadn't read and re-read this book.

I've loaned my copy to several friends, all of whom have said they learned so much from it, and it's currently on loan to a co-worker who easily makes double — maybe even triple — my salary. We all like to think that the more money you make, the better off you'll be financially, but oftentimes mo' money = mo' problems, and my co-worker has told me The Total Money Makeover is exactly what he needed to read.

Enough about the book — here's how to win! 

Just leave a comment on this post by 5:00 pm PST on Wednesday, March 16, telling me one thing you'd like to do in your life. Do you want to visit a certain city or country? Fly in a helicopter or become a certified scuba diver? Whatever you want to do, big or small, let me know and you're entered to win. Even if you don't particularly want the book, you can always sell it on eBay and use the money for a few burritos from Chipotle — with guac.

I've updated the comment settings, so you should be able to leave a comment without creating an account! Be sure to leave your name so I know who to get in touch with. I'll randomly choose a winner and announce it on Thursday.

Aaaand if this prize is a little too nerdy and nobody enters? Then more burritos and guac for me!

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Sunday, January 2, 2011

1/1/11 in photos, plus 2011 goals

The Resolution Run 5K and Polar Bear Dive...


Fish and chips and beer at Paddy Coyne's...

Aaron doing something I cannot do in front of a random apartment building...

Not pictured: a delicious nap, a ridiculously cheesy grilled cheese sandwich, watching Easy A and watching episodes from the first season of Dexter.

A solid first day of the year.

As for the rest of the year...


Devon's 2011 Goals


Running

- Run a sub 27:00 5K — 2/12/11
- Run the Warrior Dash — 7/16/11
- Run a 10K (Bellevue 10K) — 4/17/11
- Run a 15K (Seattle's Best 15K) — 5/21/11
- Run a half marathon (Seattle Rock 'n' Roll) — 6/25/11
- Run a marathon (Las Vegas Rock 'n' Roll) — 12/4/11

Writing

- Develop a regular posting schedule for this blog (3x a week; M/W/F?) — Ongoing attempt!
- Be honest — Ongoing
- Be myself — Ongoing

Finances (i.e. the thing I've gotten lazy with lately)

- Write a budget before each payday (twice a month) — Didn't do this!
- Go back to using cash for discretionary spending — Nope
- Save bonuses, as well as a portion of each paycheckstarted automatic savings account 7/1/11
- Have one year's worth of salary in savings by the end of 2011YES! Allowed me to quit my job 11/30/11

Health

- Get at least 7 hours of sleep per weeknight — HA! I was terrible with this
- Eat more fruits/vegetables/whole grains — I did well with fruits/veggies and AVOIDED grains for stomach reasons
- Eat less dairy (cheese in moderation, especially) — Success
- Eat even less meat (I hardly eat it anyway) — I ate MORE meat (still not much) for protein during marathon training
- Find and stick to half-marathon and marathon training programs — Very successful!
- Do more outdoor activities (like hiking) — I hiked, biked, skydived, learned to surf, swam and ran my little heart out

Random

- Go skydiving again — 3/2/11 on the North Shore of Oahu
- Learn how to wakeboard — Nope
- Go rock climbing (even just at REI) — Nope
- Have coffee with Nicole Brodeur — I emailed her and she agreed, but I failed to follow up. Oops.
- Visit New York City10/7-10/10
- Have regular lunch/dinner dates with my dad — Not as many as I would have liked!
- Buy a digital SLR camera and use it — 2/9/11
- Buy a new laptop — 1/29/11


That's all I could come up with for now. It'll be nice to revisit this list and be able to cross things off, or check back on it when I'm in a rut and see what I need to work on achieving.

Speaking of crossing things off... here's my completed (and very short) 2010 list of goals:

1. Pay off my credit card by my birthday.
2. Pay off my student loan by July 1 (actually July 16).
3. Move out of my mom's house by the end of January 2011 with no debt and more than $10,000 in the bank.

The final portion that I just crossed off the list — in bold — was moving out of my mom's house. I moved into a townhouse with two of my great friends on December 26. I love it so far, and I'm so glad I was able to start 2011 out on my own.

2010 was the year of getting my finances straight and becoming independent. 2011 will be about maintaining and adding to what I achieved financially in 2010, plus tackling new athletic challenges, embarking on more adventures, embracing new hobbies and overall becoming a healthier person.

Bring it on.

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Monday, December 6, 2010

Winding down 2010, gearing up for 2011

Dear blog,

I'm sorry that I've been ignoring you. But guess what? After a year and three months of living with my mom, I'm house hunting!

Finally!!!!!

When I was in the midst of paying off all my debt, I wrote a list of specific financial goals — ones that I needed to accomplish before I could move out. I'm happy to report that I have only half of one goal left to cross off, and that is moving out itself:

1. Pay off my credit card by my birthday.
2. Pay off my student loan by July 1. (OK, technically it was July 16.)
3. Move out of my mom's house by the end of January 2011 with no debt and more than $10,000 in the bank.

(A year ago, the last half of the last goal seemed impossible, but here I am. It wasn't easy to accomplish, but everything has been worth it.)

Looking for a place to live is exciting, but time-consuming and a bit stressful. Mostly exciting. I'll let you know when my future roommates and I nail down a place and get the details worked out.

Until then, posting on Answering Oliver will be light since I'm a perfectionist and like to spend way too much time writing these posts. It's a sickness.

In the meantime, you can keep an eye on my running blog, where it's much easier on my psyche to throw up quick posts that I don't have to obsess over. Plus, I'll have tons of stuff to write about there since I need to start training for my next 5K and another little race that I'm registered for...

Oh, yes. It's happening.

I'm ridiculously excited for 2011. The half marathon is just one of many adventures I have planned. Let's finish 2010 strong, and then go get it!!

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Don't be shy... I see you

I don't get a whole lot of comments on this blog, and that's OK. I write mostly to organize the tangle of thoughts in my head and put them somewhere else so they don't clog up my brain.

But some friends will mention in passing that they've read certain posts, and I've gotten some nice emails and Facebook messages from old high school friends with words of encouragement. It's always nice to hear that people read what I write and don't think it's complete crap. (And if you do think it's complete crap, feel free to keep that to yourself. Thanks!)

If you follow my blog and don't want to comment because you're afraid I'll think you're a creeper, don't worry about that. Chances are I already know you're a creeper, especially if you're the only person I actually know who lives in a certain state or city.


Google Analytics rocks. It lets me know that people do read my crap! And they read it all over the country. Not so much in the midwest, but I've never been a big fan of that region, either.


All those dots represent visits from 77 different cities in 21 states. Doesn't look like that many, I know, but The Google never lies. At least I like to think it doesn't.

People have also viewed this blog in Germany (hi, Moo!), South Korea (hi, Sarah!), Canada, India and New Zealand (no clue on those last three).

And while the largest concentration of visitors obviously comes from Seattle and the surrounding cities, there are a surprising number of visits from Portland, Oregon, and Mesa, Arizona. Who are you, Portland people? Holler at me, Mesa! Don't be shy. I appreciate your visits, and I'd love to hear from you, too.

This is not meant to be an OMGLookHowCoolIAmBecausePeopleReadMyBlog post. (I've already established that I never have been, am not and never will be cool.)

I just thought I'd let y'all know that although I expose quite a bit of my thoughts here, I can also see a little bit of you, and I'd like to see even more (in a completely non-creepy way). Don't be afraid to comment, or just email me if you'd like to holler (talking to you, Mesa!) or ask me any questions about how I got to be such a weirdo.

And I'm sorry I've been MIA from blogging lately. (Yes, I see when people check my blog even when I haven't updated it for several days. I appreciate you.) I've been running. And going to sleep early. And getting up early. And running. You can read a little more about that here, if you want.

I get ideas for blog posts right about the same time I get into bed (which is 9:30 on weeknights, holler!), and I usually fall asleep writing them in my head. Then they're gone when I wake up.

I also have lots of random notes, quotes and lists on the memo app on my phone. The problem is that I tend to write looong, boooring posts and don't want to just knock out a post if I won't have time to get all my thoughts out. And if I start writing a post at 8:30, I'll inevitably be up until 11:30 obsessing over it, and then be tired and miserable the next day.

I highly suggest a 9:30 bedtime, grandma style. I didn't know what it felt like to not be tired all the time until I actually started getting enough sleep, and then I realized it was awesome and I don't want to go back. This hinders my blogging. I need to make the time.

I knew I was going to like J.D. Roth of Get Rich Slowly when I read something he wrote that was along the lines of, "I've been meaning to do [such-and-such], but I haven't made the time." He deliberately avoided saying, "I didn't have the time."

We all  have the same amount of time. We all choose what to do with it.

I currently make plenty of time for:
  • exercise
  • sleep
  • life admin (boring stuff like laundry, writing my budget, clearing clutter)
I need to work on making time for:
  • my close friends
  • blogging
  • keeping up with people (calling my dad, setting up lunch dates and happy hours with friends I rarely see, etc.)

Well, this post turned from a Creepy McCreepathon into a self-improvement call-to-action...

Now to sleep. Hiking Saturday. 5K-ing Sunday.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Lighter things

Last night I was going to write about patience — how important it is in nearly every aspect of life, and how I'm working on practicing it more often.
But then Losing It With Jillian came on TV. Love that show. Amazing.
Tonight I was going to write about the very, very near end to my Big Debt Payoff of 2010. I owe $685.78 on my student loan, and that's... it. But I feel like the end of that journey deserves a longer, more reflective post, and my mind isn't in that mode right now.
(I just wrote out my budget for July. It was fun. I'm not being sarcastic, either, because I actually love writing my budgets! It's just like how I love writing HTML and solving symbolic logic equations. Blame the OCD.)

Instead, I decided to let my mind take a break from numbers and from the things I want to work on about myself. I'll cover those in excruciating detail in due time.

For now, I'll settle for something that makes me smile every time I look at it, that epitomizes everything I always thought my early twenties would be, and that reminds me to savor the sweet things in life, like a long, laughter-filled evening with a good red and even better friends...

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Settling back in to the blogosphere

It's been a while since I've blogged, and I have to say — a bit ashamedly — that I've enjoyed the break. Blogging should be fun and even cleansing, in a way.

My past blogs — SeattlePoliticore.org and Green Gal — started out fun, but eventually became things I felt obligated to write rather than things I really wanted to write. SP was always done for a grade, but I did enjoy it. It was a great experience and a subject that I was and am very interested in, although I would have loved to have been less objective.

Green Gal was born from a class assignment, but I was never graded on it. It was always something I elected to do. However, I wasn't passionate enough about the subject to truly enjoy writing about it day after day. I certainly learned a lot, and have adopted some "green" habits that I am proud of, but honestly... there are only so many things you can say about reusable grocery bags.

I got tired of saying them. I got tired of hunting for new things to write about. I got tired of being called both "holier than thou" and some version of "not green enough." (Somehow I was both...?) I got tired of writing things differently than I normally would have written them because I was afraid of offending this or that person. One of the first things you learn when you start blogging is that there will always be someone who disagrees with you, or is offended, or is just a jerk for no reason. No matter what you write about, people will make mean and/or stupid comments. There are a lot of things people will write as "Anonymous" that they will never say to your face.

As an aspiring writer, I obviously need to have a thick skin. For every negative comment I received on Green Gal, I know I've got about a thousand more coming to me throughout my future (fingers crossed) career. But what I've realized is that I can handle negative comments if I really believe in what I wrote in the first place. I am passionate about my political positions, but my "green-ness" is a different story. Obviously I think we should all be more conscious of the resources we use and work on re-using more often, but it's not my life. And I really didn't like being confined to writing about the topic of green living.

So this blog is mostly for me. I'm not writing it for a grade, I'm not writing it to be read by thousands of people, and I'm not writing to to please anyone else. I'm writing it to help myself reflect and to look forward. I'm writing it to organize my thoughts and to make plans. I'm writing it for the sake of writing, just because I love doing it. And, honestly, I'm writing because I'm out of practice and I'm afraid I won't remember what to do when school starts again. OK, that's not entirely true, but it doesn't hurt to get back into the habit of writing.

I won't be focusing on anything in particular in this blog. When I was trying to come up with a title for it, I looked around my room to find something that could help define me. Instead, I spotted a quote that has resonated with me, and that I have had taped to my bedroom mirror for a while now: "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"

Although the blog is called Answering Oliver, I'm not actually trying to come up with any concrete answers for Mary Oliver, who came up with that quote. It's more about identifying the way I want to live my life. I don't want to end up living a safe, buttoned-up, overly cautious and practical life. Clearly one needs to be somewhat cautious and practical to survive, but that is just the basic definition of living — breathing, sleeping, eating.

I want to figure out how to be alive. Alive in the sense that I can feel the blood coursing through my veins for a purpose. Alive in the sense that I can close my eyes and feel the sun on my face, go running just for the hell of it, wake up with a smile on my face and be ridiculously excited for another day.

It sounds incredibly cliched and idealistic, I know. And on a more pessimistic day, I would scoff at myself like you may be scoffing now. But every time I read some article about a person who lived their life extraordinarily, I feel lacking.

For instance, I just read something about a woman who was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer in her 20's, but she lived the rest of her life like mad and made it count. She made a list of 41 life goals long before she ever got sick and kept it in her wallet. Number 40 said, "Be alive." Number 41 said, "Be really alive."

I don't want to wait for the death of a loved one or a grim diagnosis to shock me into living a life that counts. It's hard to live every day like it's your last when you're healthy, and it's so easy to be resentful and angry about things that are so inconsequential in the end. I'm going to give it a shot, though. I'm going to try to do better.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
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